The day we’ve been preparing for has finally arrived. The wrapping paper has been cleared (or is currently covering the floor), the coffee is warm, and the world seems to have slowed down just for a moment. Today, I wanted to step away from the lists and the "to-dos" to share a thought that has been on my heart this season: How do we keep the magic from fading?
We often treat Christmas like a finish line. We sprint through December (shopping, baking, and planning) until we finally reach today. But the danger of a finish line is that once you cross it, the momentum stops. We start thinking about the cleanup, the chores of tomorrow, or the "normal" life waiting for us on the other side of the weekend.
When we do that, we let the magic slip away before the day is even over.
We talk about "Christmas magic" as if it’s a physical thing that exists in the air, but I’ve realized it’s actually something we carry within us. It’s found in taking thirty seconds to just look at the tree lights in a quiet room. It's found in really listening to a story told over the dinner table, without checking your phone. It's also found in the warmth of your home and the people who make it feel like one.
Remember: The magic doesn’t have to disappear just because the sun goes down or the gifts are opened. It lingers as long as we remain present.
If you feel the rush of "what’s next" creeping in, I encourage you to try these three things to keep the glow alive:
Linger at the table. Don't rush to clear the plates. Let the conversation drift. The dishes will still be there in an hour, but this specific moment won't.
Engage your senses. Notice the smell of pine, the taste of that specific holiday treat, and the sound of laughter. These are the things memories are made of.
Protect your peace. It’s okay to take a "quiet break" today. Step outside for fresh air or sit in a different room for five minutes just to breathe and be grateful.
My hope for you today is that you feel a sense of wonder that lasts long after the last candle is blown out. Let’s decide to carry a little bit of this kindness and stillness into the rest of the year.
The calendar may change, but the way we love and show up for one another doesn't have to.
Merry Christmas, Reader! I hope your day is filled with so much love!
