Being snowed in for a week has taught me two things: 1) I love a good cozy hobby, and 2) I am often too overstimulated to actually enjoy it. My brain has this pesky habit of auditing every possible task that "should" be completed before I’m allowed to sit down and do something "fun." It’s a vicious…

We made it (even if it was messy)! We have spent four weeks looking at our lives under a microscope; auditing our past, defining our values, mapping out seasons, and building daily rhythms. I’ll be the first to admit: my 21 days didn't look like the "aesthetic" planners you see on Instagram. There were c…

We have reached the end of the design phase. You have a North Star, a Seasonal Strategy, and a Daily Rhythm. But I have a warning for you: Planning is a form of "Productive Procrastination" if it never leads to a start date. You can have the most beautiful guidebook in the world, but if you don't move yo…

Why do we quit? Usually, it's because the "Hard Work" is happening now, but the "Reward" is six months away. The human brain isn't wired to work for months without a win. If you don't build "pit stops" into your year, your brain will eventually rebel and look for cheap rewards…

We’ve all heard of a "post-mortem," an analysis of why something failed after it’s already dead. But in a Designed Year, we use a Pre-Mortem. We are going to step into a time machine, travel to December 2026, and imagine that your year was a total disaster. You didn't hit your goals, you didn't keep …

A plan that cannot bend will eventually break. Most people fail their year because they design for their "Best Version." The version of them that has 8 hours of sleep, a clean house, and healthy kids. But what happens when the car breaks down? What happens when you’re grieving, or sick, or just plain exhaust…

Have you ever sat down to work on a goal, perhaps one you felt genuinely excited about just twenty-four hours earlier, and heard a small, sharp voice whisper: “Who do you think you are?” Or maybe it sounds like: “You’re just going to quit this like you quit that thing in 2023.” Or: “This isn't original enough.” Th…

The mid-month slump is real. I’m just going to say it: I hit the wall this week. If you’ve been following along and suddenly found yourself staring at your guidebook with a sense of "I just can’t today," please know that I am right there with you. Between the demands of work, the kids, and the general mental…